Mad Men vs. Ad Women

Tonight, we say goodbye to Don Draper and the characters we've come to know and love on AMC's Mad Men.  The show features an advertising agency in New York City in the 1960's.  I've been a fan since the beginning and from time to time would be reminded of my grandmother's career selling advertisement for a radio station in Anderson, SC.

You may be wondering how a group of fictional characters at a large ad agency in NYC who frequently drank hard liquor could remind me of my sweet teetotaler grandmother selling advertising in a small town in the south.

Funny how the mind works.

My grandmother, Shirley Palmer, answered an ad in the newspaper in 1960.  She worked for a group of "men from up north" and was essentially their eyes and ears on the ground.  She went out and took notes on local businesses and brought the information back to the men.  After a period of time, they left town and the radio station talked to my grandmother about working directly for them.

She started out making $49 per week.

Her day to day duties consisted of working up a list of businesses to call on for that day.  She would then schedule the amount of commercials the business wanted to air per day and prepare fact sheets on the business for the copywriter to make the commercial.

One of her biggest accomplishments was staying with the company for 28 years and earning a handsome salary.  Her challenges were making sells every day and working off of commission.  She had to be persistent and it paid off by going from minimum wage to selling more advertising than the man she shared an office with.

She recalled her "boss lady" coming in one day and telling her that the man made more money than she since he worked off of commission even though she was bringing in more business.  My grandmother decided that day that she would start selling and working off of straight commission, which was around 20%.

It worked out for her.  At one point, she thought the company had made a mistake by giving her too much money in profit shares.  She questioned this, being the honest person she is, and the boss told her there was no mistake.  In fact, she was one of the highest paid employees at the station.

She remembered getting upset about one particular sell that she did all the work but they ended up buying the ads through the Greenville office, so she didn't get the commission.  She had decided that she was done with the job.  She went in early the next morning and ended up answering the phone. There happened to be a call from a Michigan prison wanting to advertise their weavers in a Mill.  She proceeded to sell $2,000 and earned $400 before 9 am.  So she decided to stick it out a little longer!

(Note to self: Get to work early tomorrow!)

She worked her local connections and sold advertising to the likes of McDonand's and Clemson University as well as an array of local businesses over her 28 year career.   She told me several times that you have to "work hard" and "you get out of it what you put into it."  And that's exactly what she did until she was ready to retire.  The station was sold and moved to Greenville.  She moved on and was a caretaker for her mother.

I was thinking about which character on Mad Men would most closely portray my grandmother. Maybe Peggy? But I finally decided that she wasn't portrayed at all.  She would have been the one outselling the fancy-dressed men from NYC because they "didn't want to work."  Meanwhile she was hitting the advertisement pavement day in and day out.  Probably driving the men mad.

I remember when I was a student at Columbia College, there was a professor trying to make the point that women in the workplace had changed in a short period of time.  The professor said that most of our grandmothers probably didn't work.  Au contraire! That doesn't ring true at all for me.  Maybe she was advanced of the stereotypical southern lady in the 60's, but my grandmother certainly worked and did so incredibly well.

Cheers (with sweet tea of course) to one particular real Ad Women that has taught me just how much hard work pays off and showed how stereotypes are broken.






Take 5

Just a completely random list of things that I'm loving right now!

1.  the Skimm
I've been a Skimm-er for 7 months now and it's become a solid part of my morning routine.  The Skimm will get you up to speed on what's going on in the world each day in a fun and quick way.  Try it out and be in the know!  The Skimm team is  also fun to follow on Instagram and Facebook.  They also have some super cool guides that teach you about everything from Bitcoin to Fracking to Terror Groups. 

2. Go Columbia
The State has a new and free way to get the scoop on what's going on in Columbia.  You can find the printed version near the Free Times around town or online.  Grab your calendar, plan a trip, and explore Columbia.  No more excuses for not knowing what's happening around town. 

3. Unroll.Me
Got lots of junk email?  No time to go through the "unsubscribe" process for unwanted emails that you somehow got subscribed to?  Just go to Unroll.Me, enter your email address, and be amazed.  The website will give you a list of email subscriptions and you can choose to unsubscribe to as many as you want all at once.  I do this a few times a year to keep my inbox current and clutter free.  #YouAreWelcome




4.  Facebook Save
Have you ever been in the position of finding a post, article, recipe, or video that you don't have time to open or read while you're browsing through your Facebook newsfeed?  Have you ever done this:


Facebook is all kinds of clever and now has an option to save content in one place so you don't have to scroll back through your posts or share something to "bookmark" it that you really don't want to share with friends.  Apparently this was launched last summer, but I don't think a lot of people know about it. 

Here is how you do it:

Click the little gray arrow beside the profile name within the post that you want to save and choose "Save Link."


To find the posts/links that you've saved, go to the "More" option at the bottom of the mobile Facebook page.  Scroll Down to "Saved" and there are all of your saved links! 







5.  Real Simple Podcast- "Things Cooks Know"
I mentioned Podcasts in the last Take 5, but this particular one is worth singling out.  I realize a 20 minute podcast about eggs or broth may not tickle everyone's fancy, but if you like to cook, check it out! 


So what's the verdict?  Have you tried any of these or have some to add?  Let us all know in the comment section!

Kabobs & Composting

We've finally joined Team Composting at our house!  It's something so easy that I've wanted to do for a while.  We had a few pallets that were for Pinterest projects that never happened.  So my handy boyfriend put them together to make a simple spot for composting in the backyard.  Now, instead of throwing away food scraps when I cook, I keep a bowl for the parts that can't be used and we toss it in the new compost pile! 

Kabobs  + Food Scraps = Compost



 





Take 5

Just a completely random list of things that I'm loving right now!

1. Podcasts
THANKS, SERIAL!  I'm now constantly searching for podcasts.  Happier with Gretchen Rubin, Stuff You Should Know, Grammar Girl, NPR everything....so many podcasts, so little time.

2. Mobile Depositing
Speaking of little time, did you know you can deposit a check by snapping a picture of it with your phone? I may be a little late to this, but this feature makes life so much easier!

3. A Chef's Life
I still enjoy the occasional Saturday morning watching Food Network, but am really loving A Chef's Life on PBS.

4. Fixer Upper on HGTV
I've been watching the new season of Fixer Upper as well as catching up on the last season.  Jo-Jo and Chip are the best!

5. Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt is a new Netflix original show 
Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt is the new Tina Fey and Robert Carlock creation on Netflix starring the adorable Ellie Kemper.  It's quirky and funny and so very cute!

What's on your list?  

One Point Wonders

Hello there, long lost bloggy friends!  Happy New Year!  Happy March!  Happy Spring!

We're finally on a healthy-eating kick and rejoined Weight Watchers online.  The first week was really hard as I realized just how unhealthy and careless I've been with my eating habits.  I have a long way to go to hit my goal, but already feel so much better about a healthier lifestyle.

On Weight Watchers, you have to use your points wisely.  So I'm always excited find a "One Point Wonder!"

Dairy Fix: 
Almond milk comes in at 1 point for 1 cup.  I love cereal as a snack and this is the lowest point milk I've found.  It does have a different taste, but I kind of dig it.




Dip Fix: 
At 1 point per wedge, The Laughing Cow cheese is a great snack with veggies.  




Cheesy Snack: 
You can't beat 1 point per light cheese stick! 


Bread: 
Bread can be hard, so we were happy to find this bread at Trader Joe's for just 1 point per slice.  We liked the 7-grain bread and a lot of others must like it since it was all out at the store tonight.  


Lunch Meat: 
Bread is no good without something to make a sandwich!  This turkey breast is 1 point for 4 slices!  



Tasty Dressing: 
Salads are great, but dressings are tricky.  You can eat a generous helping of 2 tablespoons of this dressing for 1 point.  




These are just a few finds that have worked for us so far.  What about you?  Any One Point Wonders to add?  Or just healthy food finds to share?  


And 4 months later....

I haven't been able to jump back in to blogging like I wanted to this year.  The Easter and Spring season brings a sense of new hope and beginnings for me.

So here's a snapshot of the last few months in my world.  I KNOW that everyone is as over winter as I am....but here's a flashback to one of our snow days.  I'm just glad we only have to deal with this kind of snow once every few years in SC!



We celebrated Bryan's grandmother's 90th birthday in February...


Fun time with friends at the City Roots Mardi Gras festival....


I spent a weekend at home celebrating my nephew's sweet baptism...



And last but not least, my niece visited for a weekend and had such a great time with her.  


Add in a few big work projects and conferences, and just like that....the blog is all caught up!

Be Joyful in Hope



Happy, Happy New Year!  I love the promise of a new start. Last year was incredibly challenging for me on so many fronts and I'm incredibly excited and determined for the year to come.  I have missed blogging and plan to make Grits and Gossip a part of my life again.  I hope everyone has had a wonderful holiday season and treasured the time spent with your loved ones. 

I spent several wonderful hours in the kitchen today cooking my traditional New Year's meal from scratch!  It was the kind of cooking that requires an apron, 4 pots (collards, blackeyed peas, noodles for the macaroni, and sweet tea), 3 cast iron skillets (pork chops and cornbread- I had enough left to make 2), ham hocks, real butter, and lots of love.  I could hear my mom's voice in my head telling me how to make the gravy....this was the first time I've conquered it from scratch!  I could see my grandmother stirring the cornbread mixture until it "looks right"- no measurements needed.  Now to enjoy the leftovers for the next few days.....


I have lots of goals for 2014, but one is to try to memorize bible verses.  I picked up my copy of Jesus Calling by Sarah Young (highly recommend) and read the January 1st devotional.  Each devotion also gives you several verses to read and lead me to a perfect verse to focus on this week. 





Here's to a beautiful beginning of 2014 and being joyful in hope for all that is yet to come. 

What are you watching?

This "TV" year has been one of the best I can remember in a long time!  These shows round out my current favorites.
Best All Around: Downton AbbeyPBS, Sundays
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It's just THE BEST!  I got all 3 seasons on DVD for my birthday (Thanks, Mom!) and will watch it over and over.
The Dark Horse: Walking DeadAMC, Sundays 9pm
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So Zombies aren't my usual genre.  But hear me out.  I was in the Halloween spirit and decided to try something new.  We watched a few episodes of the first season on Netflix and soon we were hooked!  We proceeded to "excessively binge watch" the first two seasons and caught up on the third and current season.   And (nerd alert) we might have even bought the compilation of the comic books on which the show is based.  And I might be considering buying and framing this.
Retro: Mad Men
AMC, Sundays 9 pm
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It's a juicy, retro drama starting the 6th season on April 6th.  Netflix has the first 5 seasons!
Funnest/Friendliest: New Girl and The Mindy ProjectFox, Tuesdays 9pm and 9:30pm
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Both are fantastic, fun, and fresh sitcoms!  No explanation needed on this one!  Also, check out Zooey Deschanel's band, She and Him, and Mindy Kaling's book, Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?.
I Spy: The Americans
FX, Wednesdays 10 pm
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This new show is a "FX original drama stars Keri Russell, Matthew Rhys as undercover Soviet spies in US near end of Cold War in 1981."  Check it out and tell me what you think!
Political Fix: House of CardsNetflix
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House of Cards stars Kevin Spacey and is a Netflix original series about a SC politician.  I was on the Scandal bandwagon until I saw House of Cards!
Must See TV: Parks and RecreationNBC, Thursdays 8:30 pm
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Great cast.  Amy Poehler is fantastic.  Aziz Ansari is from SC.  Also, watch Aziz Ansari's stand up comedy specials.
On the Outs:
  • The Office- I hate to say it, but it's "time."  
  • Revolution- Started strong, but losing it's luster.
  • Glee- Definitely hasn't made the jump post graduation for the majority of the case.
On My Summer Catch-Up List:
  • Nashville-I caught one episode and really liked it.  I want to start from the beginning and catch up.  
  • Modern Family- I like this show when I see it, but haven't consistently watched it.
  • Parenthood- same as above.
  • Girls- I'm just plain curious.
What about you?  Find anything good to watch this year?
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