Showing posts with label South Carolina. Show all posts
Showing posts with label South Carolina. Show all posts

Front Porch Friday

I know you're surprised that the pics from my "front porch" this week are from the Concert of Hope and Remembrance. But it was an amazing night.


Two of the amazing women and breast cancer survivors that made this concert a reality.....


My mom and niece, Sarah, sporting a dress my mom made....


Sarah with her Papaw.....


My mom with her besties, who are all cancer survivors....


Sarah and Me...



With my grandparents, who are both cancer survivors...

Shake It Like a Polaroid Picture

I realized that I haven't shared any pictures of me recently. Like months. See previous post for list of excuses! So this is the perfect post for a blogger feeling a little lazy today. I'm not saying I can compete with baby Bella's preciousness. But here are some highlights from the last 2 months or so.

Before I moved, I went to my last South Carolina State Society Oyster Roast. It was a muddy, rainy day, but all of the food, music, and friends added up to a good time!

Shucking away....



The color coordination wasn't planned, but made a good pic!



My friends gave me a fabulous backyard cookout going away party! Miss you guys!



With my dad and sis at my stepbrother's wedding a few weeks ago......




(I'm trying this new thing called wearing color. I'm still getting used to it. If I wore this pink dress in DC, I would stick out like a sore thumb in the sea of black and gray.)

With my cousins.....





( Yes, I'm aware that I don't look anything like my family. No, I wasn't adopted or switched at birth. My sister and I have the same laugh and that has to count for something.)





A Big To-Do

I think I’m exhausted. I’ve had 2 months of nonstop to-doing. First- the moving To-Do list. It started with the scheduling of the good-byes while simultaneously dealing with the logistics of moving. I got the prescriptions refilled, and stocked up on contacts before my insurance ran out. Done, done, and done.

Then the packing To-Do list. I packed boxes strategically- some to be put in storage, others that I would need sooner rather than later. I purged through clothes and bags, separating them into categories of Goodwill, Dry Clean, Storage, Mom’s house, and my car. I had paperwork to close out my old job, transferring of bills, changing of the address. I moved my life from DC between my last day of one job on a Thursday and starting the new job the following Monday. (Always, ALWAYS take sufficient time to recover and regroup. Got it. Lesson learned.) DONE.

My move required a lot of flexibility as we went from Plan A to at least Plan D- I lost count. I had a string of car maintenance issues that put me between the spare mini van and the mechanic. (Yep, my debut to my new job in my new town was in my mom's old mini van. Don't be jealous! Just keeping it real.) The car's A/C has been recharged, the transmission modules replaced, and rotars replaced and adjusted. That doesn’t count the flat tire I had in the van. I could now be qualified to be a spokesperson for Triple A.

I knew it would be a whirlwind. I knew I had a wedding, graduation celebration and Mother’s Day. All were worked into my plan. I thought I could keep my sanity and balance it all. I would go home a LOT the first month, then spend the summer getting settled in Columbia.

But can I just tell you that I. AM. TIRED. Yet, I can't seem to sleep these days. It's an endless and ironic cycle.

The rest of my To-Do list is taunting me and I really want to know if you can ever really catch-up and be To-Do list free. I’m holding out a glimmer of hope that it is possible. And that the reasons mine has taken a few detours are valid. But still.

To my friends- I’m working on the email responses and call backs. Please don't stop being my friend!
To my family- please excuse me if I sleep all the way through our vacation later this month.
To my new roommate- thank you for helping me when I found 2 suitcases of summer clothes I had forgot about. She helped me finish unpacking and even organized my closet by color.
To Sex in the City 2- I am mad at you for wasting valuable to-do list conquering time. I am trying to forget about you and remember our good times during the show and first movie. To my car- pretty please stay well for a little while.
To my bank account- it’s the car’s fault.
To the Braves-you are making me very happy. Please don’t stop winning.
To my iron skillets- I miss you and will make this up to you with some delicious fresh summer dishes soon.
To my flat iron- I think the "Famously Hot" humidity may have us beat.
To the state of SC- I could never have gotten through this first month without your sunny days, seeing your magnolias bloom, drinking real sweet tea by the gallon, all of the smiling faces, and just being HOME. All the To-Do lists are totally worth it to be right where I am.
To Zac Brown Band- please don’t let me down this weekend! Your Chicken Fried lyrics "There's no dollar sign on a peace of mind, this I've come to know," have never been more true to me!
To my big To-Do List- hope you enjoyed your 15 minutes, cause you're going DOWN! I have more important things To Do. (Told ya I'm sleep deprived. I can't even believe I just tried to make that "joke.")

On Spratt's Side

I typically don't get political on here. Most people that know me, already know my political leanings and I try not to push that on anyone else. I have lots of friends on the other side of the issues and am glad to say that I don't let politics come before my friends.

For anyone that may not be aware, I was fortunate to participate in a Washington Semester program offered through my college. I spent a semester on Capitol Hill working in Rep. John Spratt's office. He's a 14 term Congressman representing the Rock Hill area in SC. I know I'm a little biased here,but I spent 4 months observing the man and he's definitely one of the good guys. Even some "R" friends (that will remain nameless) have serious respect for him. How else would he be able to win a republican district time and time again?

Mr. Spratt is up for reelection this year and like most districts around the country, it has potential to be a tough race. He has a proven record of advocating for his constituents on important issues (like the community health center program that I work for) while always being fiscally conservative and responsible. He's the chairman of the House Budget Committee and is incredibly careful with our precious public dollars. He's one of the smartest people I've ever been privileged enough to be around. And I for one want only the smartest people representing me! I wouldn't stand on the side of the road waving signs at on coming traffic honking their horns for just anyone!

I have to back up for a second and recognize that I would never have had the opportunity to spread my wings in DC if I didn't have loans to help me pay for college. I'm still paying them off, but sincerely believe that they're an investment for our country. Congressman Spratt just introduced a bill that would extend a federal loan program. Now more than ever, we need to invest in education to help us get out of our current economic mess. I definitely know that I would not be where I am today if it weren't for this loan program.

I wanted to show my support for Rep. Spratt and thank him for planting the seed in me to work in public policy on behalf of people that can't always speak for themselves. I can only dream of one day making as big a difference as he has! Check him out, and if you're so inclined, support him however you can!


Here's more info on the bill. Read it on his website here.

Spratt Introduces Bill to Continue Low-Income Students' Access to College and Preserve Thousands of Jobs

WASHINGTON - U.S. Rep. John Spratt (D-SC) today introduced legislation to extend the life of the Perkins Loan program, giving 500,000 low-income students greater access to college each year and providing jobs to thousands who administer and service the loans nationwide.

“Education is the engine of job creation and economic growth,” said Spratt. “By helping students attend college who otherwise might not be able to afford it, we are giving them the opportunity to succeed in today’s economy.

“In my district, two companies employ almost 300 people servicing Perkins loans, and the results speak for themselves: it’s a successful student aid program with a low default rate,” Spratt said.

The bipartisan Perkins Loan Extension Act was introduced in the U.S. House of Representatives by Spratt and cosponsored by Education and Labor Committee Chairman George Miller (D-CA), Rep. Tim Bishop (D-NY) and Rep. Cathy McMorris Rodgers (R-WA).

Bob Perrin, President of Williams & Fudge, Inc., a Perkins loan servicer in Rock Hill, South Carolina, said, “Williams & Fudge, Inc. is very thankful for Congressman Spratt’s leadership, dedication, commitment, and support to preserve the Federal Perkins Student Loan Program. In a community that is experiencing double-digit unemployment, 240 professional jobs at our company are dependent upon the continuation of the program. These same 240 employees who are proud of the role they play in providing future opportunities for students also dine and shop locally, thus adding to the economy.”

Under current law, colleges will begin repaying prior federal funding to the Treasury in October 2012 instead of continuing to make new loans with the funds, a change that would spell an end to the program. The recall date was pushed back a number of times in past legislation, most recently in the 2007 College Cost Reduction and Access Act.

“Allowing the program to end in 2012 will jeopardize college access for low-income students,” said Spratt. “It will also eliminate jobs for thousands of people who administer and service the loans.”

Spratt’s bill changes the repayment date to October 2013, extending the Perkins loan program to allow colleges more time to plan how to continue providing assistance to students who are eligible for Perkins loans.

“Unlike some federal aid programs, there’s a human touch to Perkins loans, where colleges choose the students who apply and then either work with the students or hire companies to service the loans,” Spratt said.

Lori Hartung, Regional Sales Manager for Todd, Bremer & Lawson, Inc., a Perkins loan servicer with about 40 employees in the 5th District, said, "It is great news that Congressman Spratt is taking steps to continue the Federal Perkins loan program that helps make college possible for many people. His leadership in supporting this important loan program will make a difference for people in our community and students across the country."

BACKGROUND

Perkins loans are low-interest (5 percent interest) loans that go to about 500,000 low-income college students at some 1,700 college campuses each year. Students can have their Perkins loans cancelled if they undertake certain public service jobs for a specified length of time, thus reducing their total debt and making it easier to choose to pursue public service.

The program is financed by past federal capital contributions, college matching funds, and student repayments of past loans that are recirculated in a college’s revolving fund. The President’s budget included a comprehensive change to expand and extend the program, but Congress did not include the proposal when it approved changes to student aid programs earlier this year.

Big News!

I've been a little preoccupied over the last few months...hence the light blogging! Here's the story:


Six years ago, I was an excited college graduate ready to spread my wings and move to DC. It has been a journey that I could have never imagined. I've had experiences and opportunities that have greatly enriched my life. I first worked for a United States Senator and then found my way into the public health advocacy field during an historic time in our nation's capital.

For a while now, I've wanted to be closer to home. The last year has been difficult knowing that I wanted to be someplace else. Looking for a job from a distance in this little thing called a recession, was incredibly challenging. In the end, the most perfect opportunity opened up and couldn't have been more timely.


I'm so excited to share the news that I'm going to be moving back to SC later this week! I can't believe that things finally fell into place. There are obvious mixed emotions about leaving a life I've lived for the past six years. It's never easy to say goodbye. But while it is bittersweet, I feel at peace with the new direction I'm moving in.


I will never be able to thank all of the people that endured my endless stressing and worrying. I only hope they know how much I appreciate them and that I share this happiness with each of them!

Concert of Hope and Remembrance

I was excited to be able to go home this year for a special occasion near and dear to my family's heart. Eight years ago, my mom's friends, Jean and Kurt, came across a program of music called Sing for the Cure. Sing for the Cure is a series of music and narrations that express the many emotions that a cancer diagnosis brings. After sharing it with my mom and stepdad, they were all inspired to make something happen. They collaborated with a local non-profit to put the first concert together. A community choir was formed.




The concert now benefits cancer patients in my hometown through the work of the Cancer Association of Anderson.

I attended the first concert and loved seeing the finished product. Needless to say, it was a huge success and has grown over the last eight years. This year, there were 130 adult choir members and 29 children's choir members. SCETV even did a piece helping to promote it this year. You can view the short video here. The concert was absolutely beautiful. The venue was packed. And the spirit of hope and remembrance was eloquently executed and truly inspiring.

The glimmer of votive candles danced in the window sills in honor of so many loved ones that lost their battles- a simple and beautiful scene symbolic of the light that they brought to other people's lives.


My heart is proud to be the daughter of such talented and visionary people. My heart is thankful for the people in my life that have overcome some very tough times. And my heart is a little bit heavy as it goes out to some special people that are fighting cancer this very second.

Cancer has hit some people close to me. My grandmother is a 49 year survivor of cancer. My mother is a 9 year survivor. And these two special ladies, who might as well be considered my honorary aunts, Jean is a 9 year survivor and Debbie is a 5 year survivor.




While I have not been able to participate in any of the concerts, I have always been there in spirit. This year, I was able to experience and applaud for each beautiful song. The lengthy standing ovation proves how wonderful the concert was.




A Charleston Wedding

What better way to decompress after a particularly difficult week than heading to Charleston for a beautiful wedding! There's something so charming and calming about Charleston. I headed down with my roomie for one of our friend's wedding. We even worked in a blissful hour on the beach just laying in the sun.

The wedding was beautiful- outside and beside the water. There was a huge wrap around porch. And of course, the bride was stunning.

The scene from the porch:

Roommate pose:


First Dance:

Fun with friends:


With the Bride:







Congrats to the newlyweds!









Make It Work...

...it's been so long since we've heard heard Tim Gunn mutter those three words! Project Runway kicks off their new season on Lifetime tonight! You may recall that there was some back and forth between Bravo and Lifetime as they worked out which channel would land the show. It was finally settled and we can all get our fashion fix tonight on Lifetime!

I'm especially excited about this season because someone I knew in high school will be competing! Carol Whitfield is a few years younger than me, and always did have quite a creative streak. I saw her last Christmas at my sister's party, and mum was certainly the word. We had NO idea that she had already filmed and been a part of Runway. We have our guesses on how things end up, but I can't wait to see for sure! What an honor for her to be a part of the show! Check out Carol's official info here.

Last summer, I watched a fellow Andersonian, Bailey Hanks, win MTV's Legally Blonde reality contest. I must say that having someone to personally cheer on makes these shows SO much more fun!

Beach Bums

Let's see......where do I start? Would you like to hear about my fabulous vacation that I hyped up on here a few weeks ago? Or the not so fabulous end to my vacation where my cell phone broke and I had car trouble, stranding me in Florence, SC for 27 hours or so?

I'm trying to forget about that last part, so I'm going with the vacation. Almost all of my mom's family was able to spend a week together at Edisto Beach in SC. (Ryan and Lindsey- we missed you!)

I started the vacation a day earlier than the rest of the fam and met my sister and brother-in-law in Charleston for a night. We had a blast downtown and I got to catch up with an old friend. Millicent and I go way back to middle school, went to church together, college together, and even dated brothers at one point. It's always fun to reminisce about the good ole days!



You know it's a good night when it ends like this....



The next day, we took a detour to see the Angel Oak Tree- Gorgeous!




Edisto is a rather secluded beach and is totally uncommercialized. There aren't a lot of restaurants or entertainment options. But that was just fine with us. My mom's cooking is way better than any restaurant anyway! We had a FULL menu of shrimp and grits, a fish fry, low country boil, roast beef, steak, and lots of delicious homemade sides. I wish I had taken pictures of the beautiful meals, but I was way too concerned about eating it!

We spent the days lounging on the beach...



...watching the dophins swim and play, and eating tomato sandwiches! (There's just NOTHING like a fresh mater on top of white bread lathered in Duke's mayo- truly an amazing southern creation.)

And we spent the nights playing Jenga, Checkers, Uno, card/board games, watching movies, and putting together a rather annoying jigsaw puzzle that was missing 3 pieces!

A sampling of the family photo shoot....









Say it with me- AWWWWWWWWW!





Getting crazy!



Beautiful sunset...



We took a few breaks from the beach- once to go to some local antique shops and to stock up on some local produce and shrimp. THE place to do this is called George and Pink's. It's a local favorite and has been featured in Southern Living several times.

You drive down a loooong dirt road....



And there it is!








My mom with Pink....



We took a break from the beach one day and headed to Charleston to have lunch and shop.

We had a great time soaking up the sun and enjoying each other's company. We all voted to make this a tradition!

Are we there yet?

Have I mentioned that I'm going to the beach next week? Like, for a whole week? Cause I am, and am super excited about it! When I started thinking about vacations, it made me sad that I can't remember the last time I went on a real one. Sure there's been a weekend trip here or there, but all of my vacation time the past 5 years has been spent on visiting home, holidays, and going to weddings. (I know, poor me!)

Don't get me wrong, I LOVE visiting home, but I don't think Anderson has ever been featured as a favorite vacation destination. But correct me if I'm wrong! And I LOVE all of my friends and family that have gotten hitched over the last few years, but it is time for a real vacation!

Like an entire week of no work, no email, no meetings, no shuffling around from house to house on a holiday. There will be no worrying about having the right outfit to wear and no making someone else feel like they're the center of the universe. There will be no fake small talk, no stress or guilt for not spending enough time with people when I'm home, no alarm clock, no traffic, no crowds, no politics, no schedule, no diet, no gym.

I saw one of those Corona commercials last night where the dude is chillin at the beach while skipping rocks and his blackberry starts buzzing. He picks up the blackberry, and skips it right into the water. THAT is the state of mind I'm planning to be in!

Just me, the sun, the ocean, the sand, and family. Zac Brown Band will be my vacation soundtrack, and Firefly will be my drink of choice.

I'm making the most of my once-in-a-blue-moon vacation and am leaving a day early! Almost all of my mom's side of the blended family tree will be spending a week together at Edisto Beach. This is the first of what we hope will become a tradition.

Judging from the amount of Target bags that I left with a few nights ago, I may be a little too anxious. One good thing about going on vacation in August is that EVERYTHING is on sale. The downside is that everything is picked over. But I lucked out on a few things. Beach towels were only $3.99! I also got some surcies for the kiddos, that I hope they'll like! Click here for a definition if you don't know what a Surcie is (still trying to educate the non-southerners when I get a chance.)

4 days, people!!!!!


(Note- I am sadly missing out on a fun girls weekend in NYC for a friend's bachelorette party. And if she's reading this, I hope she knows that none of the wedding talk earlier is directed at her! This is 6 years of no-vacation bitterness coming out! I hope you ladies have a FABULOUS weekend and I wish the timing worked out better!)

Summer Days

Seriously....how is 2009 going by so fast? I have to get busy on my summer to-do list! I can probably go ahead and cross off anything to do with getting a tan b/c that doesn't seem to be in the cards for me. Oh well....it causes skin cancer anyway.

I hope everyone had a Happy 4th! This was my first 4th of July away from DC since I moved here 5 years ago. I went home to SC and had a busy 5 day "vacation." Going home is an interesting thing. When I graduated from college and moved to DC, I wanted little to do with going home during that first year. But eventually being away made me miss things and appreciate the pleasures of home. I guess it's that absence makes the heart grow fonder thing.

The weather was perfect for days at the pool/lake, and nights sitting outside with family and catching lightening bugs with the niece and nephew. I water skied for the first time in about 10 years. Turns out it was like riding a bicycle...I got up on my first try and didn't fall!

I didn't totally fall off my diet wagon, which is a major accomplishment when visiting the South. That is except for the 3 different kinds of homemade ice cream that I enjoyed! Sooooo good! I also came back with my favorite souvenir- my grandfather's home grown tomatoes! I hope to have some of my own from the garden I planted soon. We'll see how they compare.

I'm back in town for a busy few weeks at work, and am already counting down the days until the beach in August!

Some pics from my trip-

Visiting my grandparents while they camped at Oconee State Park....






Paddle Boating with my dad at the State Park....




Chillin with my niece and her awesome green cast....




Fun at the lake with the kiddos....


Southern Eating Frenzy

Whenever I take a weekend trip, it takes a few days to get back to blogging! I had a great weekend in SC and as usual, the highlights are all about the food....

First, if you ever find yourself in Columbia around a mealtime, get yourself to Pawley's Front Porch IMMEDIATELY. I have to say that I'm kind of glad that this place wasn't open when I was in college, cause I would have eaten here way too much and gained 100 pounds or so. I started with some fried pickles. mmmmmmmm. This was a tough decision as the fried green tomato appetizer looked divine. I choose the Isle of Palm Burger which had a pimento cheese spread on it. double mmmmmmm. I got the sweet potato fries as the side (trying to be healthier, but probably doesn't really matter at this point.) Everything was delicious! We scored a table outside and had great service. Man, I miss the south. Pawley's definitely earns a 5 on my Sweet Tea Scale.

At our office holiday party last year, I won a lobster dinner for 2 from Legal Sea Foods. Initially, I thought it was a regular ole restaurant gift certificate. But it was a mail order type thing. I got 2 live lobsters, clam chowder, crab cakes and boston cream pie. I don't think I've ever eaten lobster like this and definitely have never tried to cook live ones. Needless to say I was a little intimidated by this whole thing. Luckily, I had a partner in crime that was up for the challenge. I didn't have to touch them. I just watched and took some pics. Again- this was delicious! The portion sizes were perfect and it tasted great. If you ever need a good gift idea, I highly recommend it.



Next up: Brunch! I met a college friend at Di Prato's for a lovely brunch. I got the special of the day- banana pancakes with pecans and my friend got the eggs benedict and we shared. It was so good! Another 5 on the Sweet Tea Scale. I'm giving those out left and right these days, maybe I'm just getting really good at picking places! Just kidding, I had nothing to do with either of these Columbia gems, but am glad the people I know have excellent taste!

It was nice to get away and catch up with people I don't get to see regularly. An all around great start to the summer ahead! That is, besides the whole dropping my cell phone in the toilet thing. Yep, it fell right out of my pocket and in to the John. May it rest in peace. So if you've tried to get in touch with me in the last few days, this is my excuse!

Princess Ethel Roberts

This story is so sweet that I just had to share! My mom is the Director of a Living Center in a tiny town in SC. She's always coming up with and supporting non-traditional activities that you won't find at some nursing homes. Like bringing in animals to live with residents, going to local baseball games, and planting vegetable gardens. She brought in an art therapist and then had an art auction so the residents could sale their original artwork. (I have a colorful print of a palmetto tree hanging in my room that one resident painted.) They even took a group to the beach last year as reported in the local newspaper. My mom, and the lovely folks that she works with are dedicated to making their resident's last stage of life as enjoyable and special as possible.

Which brings me to the latest event: the Ms. Willow Creek beauty pageant! My mom supplied most of the formal dresses since we have so many from proms, formals, and her own community theater performances. This particular dress was my prom dress junior year. And I can't think of any better use for it!!!




A little blurb about this pretty lady from my mom:

"Mrs. Ethel Roberts is a resident at Willow Creek Living Center in Iva, SC. She has endeared herself to the staff and residents since coming here a year ago. We have placed a quote by Mrs. Roberts on our wall as an inspiration to the work we do. The quote is "Good, better, best and may we never rest until the good is better and the better is best". When she was getting ready for the pageant she told us that she felt like a princess. Oh how I wish I could be this beautiful when I am 97."

This proves that we're NEVER to old to be a princess!

A Path Less Travelled – At Least by this Floridian

Guest Blog by Shira Gitomer

For those of you who don’t know, Becky is from Anderson, South Carolina home to a yearly chili cook off and the jockey lot (a well known local mecca of sorts). While some of you may know of it, my guess is most don’t, which would be of no surprise since the population of Anderson is only 25,500 – smaller than most cities I have ever been to yet still larger than the country of Monaco. While I consider myself a cultured individual, travelling around the world since I was five, spending months abroad in China, Australia, and Kenya and even a small Navajo village in Arizona nothing would have truly prepared me for Anderson, South Carolina.

After a mere six hours of highway hell, Becky and I finally arrived in South Carolina. I immediately perked up trying to take in everything I could. Within 5 minutes I was inundated with “Jesus Saves” signs, cigarette smoke, and huge billboards advertising foods I had never heard of. Becky laughed as she explained what boiled peanuts were, sweet potato pie, and the 1,001 things one can do with a peach. Next, we drove by what looked like a enormous butt, fortunately I was mistaken it was a water tower made to look like a huge peach – yeah I know it was a bit odd and reminded me of the world’s largest frying pan in Long Beach, Washington. Apparently I am not the only one that has thought this thing looked like a butt check this website out http://www.pickyourown.org/SCgiantpeach.htm.



After about two hours of observing and commenting on everything we passed, we finally turned off the highway. I was not really sure what to expect at this point, thus far South Carolina had lived up to every stereotype and expectation I had. As we drove down what ended up being one of the main roads in Anderson I saw strip mall after strip mall – which I can’t really comment on considering my home city of Tampa is littered with them. Finally, we pulled off the main road onto the side streets leading to Becky’s mom and step dad’s house. The side streets were a bit rugged at least pavement wise but the houses were cute, all with their own character and what seemed small but as I soon learned were deceptively large.

We finally pulled into Becky’s parents’ driveway and I was ready for a nap. When I woke from my nap we sat down for what I was told was a typical southern meal. I mean, I love food but this was out of control – there was more food on the table then some countries consume in a month. In an effort to grasp the full experience, I held nothing back and dove right in. I started with a pasta chicken dish, cheese biscuits (made from scratch), salad, and ham. Feeling as if my top button was about to burst I took one for the team and re-filled my plate. If I was going to drive all the way to South Carolina I was determined to experience the stereotypical southern cuisine.

The next morning I woke up to a Valentine’s Day gift courtesy of Becky’s mom and a cup of oatmeal at my seat – I was starting to get use to this southern hospitality. The oatmeal had been stewing all night and was topped with sugar, apples, and walnuts. I ate it all and then finished off what Becky had left – this became a pretty common theme throughout the weekend. After breakfast I figured it was time for me to get outside and try and burn off the excessive amount of calories that had entered my body.

As soon as I returned we headed out on the town. Of course our first stop was food – I think South Carolina should rewrite their motto from “while I breathe, I hope” to “while I breathe, I hope to eat as much as I possibly can.” We had lunch at a hometown favorite, Skin’s Hotdogs. After lunch, we visited a number of different local shops each of which Becky’s mom knew and talked to at least one person – oh the joys of insanely small towns. In each of the stores we were greeted the same way “hey y’all, how’re you doin’, let me know if I can help you” – kind of weird to have such friendly people surrounding you with such funny accents. After our outing we returned home to relax a bit before our next eating frenzy.

But just when I thought I would have time to make room for the next meal Becky’s step dad brought home the infamous boiled peanuts. As they were plopped on the table - I observed how others around me were eating them – finally it was my turn. I sucked out the juice before cracking it open and shoveled out the peanuts with my fingers (that was actual my little idea) – Becky made fun of me. They basically taste like wet red beans with salt – I know, I know sounds nasty but actually not that bad.



After a 30 minute rest from the wet beans we sat down for another amazing meal consisting of pork tenderloin, sweet potatoes, mac n cheese (basically just cheese), cabbage, and cheesy/bacon cornbread. The meal was topped off with a delicious homemade upside-down apple pie baked by Becky's mom's friend. Umm do I need to say more?!!

Later that night we ventured into “downtown,” I say this timidly only because it consisted of two blocks of soon to be revitalized buildings and really when I say buildings I mean townhouse looking things – others may describe this as cute or quaint.


We meet up with some of Becky’s friends and ended up at a jazz club in “downtown”. Now this was a pleasant surprise, although I was shocked by the $10 cover – I thought things were cheap in South Carolina but I guess since the club seemed like a transplant they didn’t know better either. We had a good night and were even serenaded by a ridiculous drunk guy that I am pretty sure was missing a tooth or two.

The next morning I rolled out of bed (pretty literally now since I had consumed more food than a person should really eat in a month) and started to get ready for church. That is right – this Jew took the Anderson Methodist church by storm and best yet I pulled of the Christian look pretty well – no one called me out – even though it was obvious I had no idea what was going on. While the service was in English (as opposed to Hebrew like I was used to) I had no idea how to read the hymns and the pastor keep making us stand up and down – rather annoying. The only saving grace was the amazing choir and Becky’s mom sang a duet. Sadly enough this newly inducted southerner couldn’t stop thinking about lunch.

Luckily for me Becky’s mom had lunch ready when we returned home. Just a light meal this time – roast beef, carrots & green beans with bacon, potatoes, brown rice, squash casserole, and rolls. Gosh was I going to miss eating like a queen. I wondered exactly how it was going to be to go back to my life of lean cuisines and McDonald's. Just as I started to get worried Becky’s mom start divvying up the food for us to take home. Yay! Left over for a week – at least.
Just when I thought our adventure was coming to a close, Becky and I got in the car and drove about 30mins to her dad’s. I thought I was already in a remote rural country area but apparently I was mistaken. Only now was I experiencing the rural countryside of Anderson. We drove by tiny houses on huge plots of land, some well kept and others left to be desired. We even passed a house with at least 15 broken down cars in the front yard. Oh and a grocery store called the Piggly-Wiggly – now seriously how could you ever shop there. I could only picture that one day this rural countryside would be “hip” welcoming bars, restaurants, and cafes – but for now this vast rural landscape was only speckled with trash, bad roads, nice people, and what seemed like a simple life whose residents were a bit suspicious of strangers.

You would not even guess what was waiting when we returned home – nothing else but dinner! In an effort to wane me off the exorbitant amount of food I was so accustomed to consuming, Becky’s mom prepared a smaller but just as fulfilling meal of chicken salad sandwiches and potato soup. After dinner we packed up and got ready for our early morning departure.

Anderson, South Carolina was great, Becky’s family and friends showed me what real southern hospitality was and hopefully my Yankee ways didn’t cause any issues. If they did they were too polite to let me know – I guess we will see if I am ever invited back! Most importantly I want to thank everyone (especially Becky) who drove me around, answered all my stupid questions, laughed at the ridiculous nature of my comments, and joined me in having a great time.
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